When a man has his eyes outside a relationship he is into, it means his woman has failed to give him something he desires and hence he has decided to search for it elsewhere. The fact that men are polygamous is undeniable; the majority of men cannot stick to a woman for natural reasons, it only takes an exposed and understanding woman to be able to make her man stick to her like plasma in blood. Only if a woman can understand the totality of man can she be able to achieve this.
Have you ever seen man brag about a woman tirelessly? Yes! I have seen situations where a man while having a can of beer with his friends talks about his woman; not withstanding the fact that there is a normal saying that goes “women are unstable and can never be trusted, they are all the same”, most women have a way of winning their man’s heart. The simple secret is this, give to him what every other woman cannot give to him; even if he is a womanizer, he would still long to come back to you because he cannot get what you give to him outside.
If you want your man to stay glued to you at all times, then you can apply the following principles:
1. Treat your man like his mother would do: Every man needs a woman that would treat him just like his mother does; every man needs a woman to pamper him and address his needs. First and foremost you must know his best meal and know how to prepare it in a special way. When a man realizes that his woman treats him to special delicacies, he cannot help but think of running back home immediately after work. While he is on his PC at work, he keeps creating mental pictures of what awaits him at home. It is not just a matter of preparing the food; it is also a matter of making him feel warm and comfortable when he gets back home. Give him a peck on the cheek or a kiss as he comes back home from work, ask him how his day at work went; make sure you listen to him attentively as he speaks, if he encountered any problem at work, try to proffer solutions. Help him take off his clothes and shoes, prepare the bath for him to wash his body and get comfortable; as he does that make sure the table is set for dinner. Spoon feed him if possible, make sure your man is comfortable with this; if he is not then do not bother about it. Countless number of times I hear a man brag about a woman, this is the first thing he talks about; he tells his friend my woman “Is like my mother”, she treats me right and I cannot look outside.
2. Dress to kill: I tell you, a woman without a good dress sense is bound to drive her man out of a relationship. Men like to brag about their woman and as such would always be of the view that their woman should look gorgeous at all times. It does not matter whether you are beautiful or not, your dressing and appearance always have a way of making you outstanding. Please always dress well to suit occasions; even when you are at home, put on clothes that reveal the most part of you; after all it’s your home. Make him desire you all the time, make him dream of you at all times by dressing well and looking good. When a woman dresses well you would always hear her man brag about her continuously, I remember vividly a guy comparing his wife with Beyonce because she meets up with standard of Beyonce in appearance.
3. Don’t snoop into his affairs: Women who are always reading the text messages on their man’s phone and asking questions like “Who is this and who is that” would end up pushing their man outside. While it is a man’s world to cheat, it is a woman’s bit to understand and play cool; after all while should he cheat when you give him all he wants. When he receives a suspecting phone call and starts acting funny, just smile and nod your head; you don’t need to ask him, he would tell you immediately.
4. Make him your best friend: Always make sure you are there for your man when he needs you to talk to, make sure you give him a listening ear, and make sure you are interested in his affairs and business. Joke with your man when need be, talk to him and advice him when he needs it, play games with him, try to make him happy at all times, put him in a situation that he tells you everything that happens to him on a daily basis; you can only achieve this by also being open to him. You can start up with ” Can you imagine what happened to me today, there was this silly guy that tried to woo me even after he saw the ring on my finger; I gave him the worst embarrassment of his life”, things like that makes a man comfortable and trust you more like a friend.
5. Maintain a good sexual life: This is what you don’t want to mess around with if you must keep your man. Understand his sexual life and appetite and try as much as you can to fulfill it. Try to understand when and how he likes to have sex, try to understand his mood, try to give him a wonderful sexual experience; one that he desires at all times. While some men like women that are sexually exposed and are filled with varieties of sex styles, others do not. This could be because of the single reason that if a man finds out his woman has an insatiable appetite for sex and comes up with different styles he becomes insecure, he might begin to lack trust. Things like this should be discussed, make sure he enjoys having sex with you, make it a memorable one for him so he keeps coming to you at all times.
6. Buy him gifts: It is not always a man’s bit to surprise his partner with gifts; it is also the responsibility of a woman to shower her man with gifts. Change his under wear; buy him some new clothes, cologne and stuffs. Surprise him with things he loves most, this adds spice to the relationship.
7. Always pray with your man: They say prayer is the master key; if you wake up every morning to say a little prayer together with your man, I see no reason why he should not stay glued to you. Men do have conscience; believe me when I say that; even the hardest men still have their soft spot. If he remembers that he said a little prayer with his woman before leaving for work, it makes him feel guilty if he tries to cheat. Like they say, a family that prays together stays together.
I hope I have been able to help you, I wish you a successful relationship. Please make sure you adhere to the afore listed points.